That's a great question. I reiterated a few times through through organising that we would all be expected to look after ourselves and each other. I knew a couple of people might be inclined to go into hosting mode (myself, the people pleaser, included) so especially when it came to food I said we were keeping it simple. I also said there was no agenda. No 6am yoga, no quiet hour, no 7pm disco or anything 🤣. I think everyone really appreciated being able to just slow down and do what they wanted.
That sounds like a really good approach to getting everyone out of hosting mode (it’s a practice to not default into that role isn’t it?) I’m so glad it worked and that everyone was able to relax and enjoy while still pitching in. Thank you for answering! 😊
This sounds so dreamy Holly! Thank you for outlining some of the practical elements of pulling it all together. I wondered, did you do anything in particular to manage expectations/set boundaries around the difference between you ‘hosting’ and ‘facilitating’ the weekend? Especially around what you took responsibility for in the lead up with the organising? X
That's a great question. I reiterated a few times through through organising that we would all be expected to look after ourselves and each other. I knew a couple of people might be inclined to go into hosting mode (myself, the people pleaser, included) so especially when it came to food I said we were keeping it simple. I also said there was no agenda. No 6am yoga, no quiet hour, no 7pm disco or anything 🤣. I think everyone really appreciated being able to just slow down and do what they wanted.
That sounds like a really good approach to getting everyone out of hosting mode (it’s a practice to not default into that role isn’t it?) I’m so glad it worked and that everyone was able to relax and enjoy while still pitching in. Thank you for answering! 😊
This sounds so dreamy Holly! Thank you for outlining some of the practical elements of pulling it all together. I wondered, did you do anything in particular to manage expectations/set boundaries around the difference between you ‘hosting’ and ‘facilitating’ the weekend? Especially around what you took responsibility for in the lead up with the organising? X
Sorry Megan I've replied but somehow not to your comment! It is there though if you take a look.
I seriously urge people to take your tips and run with their own retreat - I’ve never experienced anything like it, and just want more people to!
I'm so glad you were able to join us!!